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Rooted Beyond Motherhood (#RBMSeries)


"Rooted Beyond Motherhood" is a blog series rooted in spiritual identity, emotional well-being, and wholeness in Christ. While motherhood is sacred, it does not define the entirety of who we are. Through this series, we explore the full spectrum of womanhood beyond motherhood; our dreams, creativity, struggles, passions, and evolving identities. It invites women to reconnect with their God-given identity, nurture their emotional and spiritual health, and remember that before we were mothers, we were beloved daughters, called women, and whole persons in Christ. Motherhood is a vital chapter in our story, but it is not the whole story. Below is the outline for the series.

Blog Series Outline

  1. Before I Was "Mom," I Was His
  2. When Caregiving Costs You Yourself
  3. The Guilt of Wanting More and God’s Grace
  4. Healing the Woman Beneath the Sacrifice
  5. Your Body Is Still Sacred
  6. Friendship, Solitude & Spiritual Community
  7. You're Calling Isn’t Cancelled by Motherhood
  8. Becoming Whole Again; One Faithful Step at a Time

As this series unfolds, my prayer is not that you would add more to your already full life—but that you would remember what God never forgot about you. You are not only a mother. You are a woman formed with intention, held with tenderness, and called by name. Together, we will explore rest without guilt, desire without shame, and identity rooted not in what we do for others, but in who we are in Christ. This is a space to slow down, to listen inward, and to allow God to meet you beyond the roles you carry.

If you feel stretched thin, quietly longing for more, or unsure how to reconnect with the woman you once knew, you are not behind, and you are not alone. This journey is not about becoming someone new, but about returning to yourself with grace. May these words serve as a gentle reminder: your wholeness matters to God, and your story is still unfolding.

Closing Prayer:

Dear Heavenly Father,
We come to You as women who have given much, carried much, and loved deeply. You see every role we hold and You see the woman beneath them all. Where we have forgotten ourselves, gently remind us who we are in You. Where we are weary, teach us how to rest without guilt. Where desire stirs in our hearts, help us trust that You placed it there with purpose.

As we walk through this series, meet us in the quiet spaces. Restore what feels lost. Heal what feels fragmented. And lead us back to a wholeness that was always meant to include You. We place our identities, our bodies, our callings, and our seasons in Your care. Make us attentive to Your voice, patient with ourselves, and open to becoming.

Amen.

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